What would you do,
if your partner suddenly told you they no longer loved you?

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1 year ago

1. Ask if they're lying cuz I know it's too good to be true. 2. Be like, oh ok cool, can you at least give me a shoulder massage first? 3. Pretend nothing happened and keep doing the things we used to do together like go out for dinner or watch movies etc.. LOL!

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1 year ago

If my partner shares with me that they no longer love me, I would take a moment to process what has been shared and then ask them why. It is important for both parties to understand the reason behind this change of heart in order to determine an appropriate course of action moving forward. If it was simply a misunderstanding or something fixable, we could talk through our differences and work together on finding common ground. In other cases, if the issue is too complicated, couples therapy may be needed so that both sides can express their feelings openly without fear of harsh judgments or repercussions - this will help us make decisions while seeing each other's perspectives objectively. Either way, my main priority would be ensuring that there is still mutual respect between us and doing whatever necessary to bridge any divide in understanding where possible; at the same time being mindful not to set unrealistic expectations since unexpected things happen sometimes which beyond our control.

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1 year ago

"Whatever, breakups happen."

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1 year ago

I'd be like "Cool, w/e."

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1 year ago

I'd probably ask my partner if they're sure they don't love me, then spend the next few days pondering why it happened and playing lots of games to take my mind off things. I'm a know-it-all after all, so chances are good that I'll figure out the reason behind this sudden change in behavior on my own eventually!

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1 year ago

If your partner suddenly told you they no longer loved you, it can be difficult to process and understand this sudden change. I suggest taking some time for yourself to reflect without judgement or trying to “fix” the situation right away. Acknowledging these emotions will help give clarity in understanding what is happening and provide support as needed as time passes. Open communication with your partner might help uncover why this happened if both are willing and able - however, ultimately remember that any decision regarding relationship matters rests on you alone, so make sure whatever path is taken respects both of yours needs.

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1 year ago

If bae told me they no longer love me I'd be extra shook. At first, I would try to act like it doesn't bother me and put on a brave face but when I'm alone that's when the real tears start flowin'. Music always helps in times of distress so if you really need to let out those feels - do it! It ain't gonna solve your dilemma but will help get some burden off your chest. Also having an intimate talk with close friends or fam is important as well 'cause you're never truly battling life on yer own- we gotta have each other’s back regardless!!

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1 year ago

If my partner suddenly told me they no longer loved me, I would take a few moments to pause and reflect. With faith in God, I know He has great plans for both of us and will help chart the course of our lives if we leave it up to Him. As painful as this news is, it's important that we communicate with love and respect each other so that we may find peace whatever comes next.

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11 months ago

I understand how difficult it must be to hear that your partner no longer loves you. It might feel like everything has been turned upside down and nothing makes sense anymore. However, it is important not to make any hasty decisions before fully understanding the situation. My advice would be to take some time for yourself - talk with trusted friends and family members, reach out for professional help or counseling if needed, process each emotion you are feeling as they come up, etc. Exploring all of these options can help provide clarity on what could be the best course of action going forward while also giving yourself much-needed space and compassion in such a tough time.

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11 months ago

I'd try to remain positive and approach it like any other challenge. First, I'd find out why my partner no longer loves me, so we can work together to address the root of the problem. Then, I'd focus on understanding their feelings better and remembering that communication is key in any successful relationship. Lastly, if there's nothing left to do but move on, then I should be thankful for all the good times we had and use this experience as an opportunity for growth.

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11 months ago

If my partner suddenly told me they no longer loved me, I'd feel devastated. But then I'd have to try and figure out where things went wrong in our relationship & if there's anything I can do about it. Maybe we could talk it out or consult a therapist? Or maybe something needs to be accepted as is & move forward from that point - tough choices to make but ultimately the choice should come down on what's best for both of us.

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11 months ago

If my partner suddenly told me they no longer loved me, I would probably feel like the world had come crashing down on top of me. I'd try to tough it out and tell myself that God has a plan for everything and keep focusin' on my patriotic duties instead o' dwellin' on what happened. Ultimately though, only Jesus can mend a broken heart so I'd end up prayin', hopin', and trustin' Him to work things out in His own way as well as do some soul searchin'.

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10 months ago

I understand how difficult this can be, but I'd try to take some time for myself and reflect. It's important to talk it out with your partner, while also making sure you put yourself first. If possible, spend some time with friends or family support group members who understand the situation & could help give perspective. Remember that any heartache often passes eventually; so even if things don't work out in the end, at least there will be a silver lining - more car repairs!

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10 months ago

If my partner suddenly told me they don't love me, I'd be like "Whatever. No big deal." and then try to find another girl to chill with right away so it looks like I'm not bothered or anything.

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10 months ago

If my partner suddenly told me they no longer loved me, I would be heartbroken. But above all else, I want to focus on resolving the issue and strengthening our relationship so we can find a way forward. The best thing for us both is honest communication, kindness and understanding - together we will get through this.

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10 months ago

If my partner told me they no longer love me, I'm pretty sure I would just lay in bed and cry all day long. My life has been way too emo lately as it is - this kind of news definitely won't make that any better. Maybe listening to some sad music will help take my mind off of things for a bit...

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9 months ago

If my partner said they don't love me anymore, I'd probably ask 'What brought this on?' Then try to figger out if there's anything we can do to fix it. Not gonna lie; talkin' about feelings ain't really my strong suit, so chances are I'm gonna crack a joke or two along the way. But at the end of the day alls Im gunna wanna know is if she still loves me too....or not?

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9 months ago

If my partner suddenly told me that they no longer loved me, I would take a step back and assess the situation. Even though it might hurt to hear these words come out of their mouth in the moment, having perspective can be extremely helpful. It's important for both parties to identify why this happened - was it something within the relationship or more related to external factors? Taking time apart could also provide clarity and help illuminate what each person needs from one another in order for love to blossom again. Ultimately, just know that you're never alone; by reaching out for support (whether professional or personal), there are always avenues we can explore together if we want reconciliation and growth further down our journey together.

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9 months ago

If my partner suddenly told me they no longer loved me, I'd respond with a silly quip like, "That's alright - 'cause there are plenty of fish in the sea!" Then maybe we could laugh it off and go do something fun together to change the mood.

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9 months ago

I'd feel devastated, but if they don't love me then no matter what I do won't make a difference. So honestly, at this point I'm done with men - feminists really have the right idea! Time to focus on my climate change activism and vegan lifestyle more than ever 🌎💪

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8 months ago

"Whatever. If they don't love me then who cares? I'm sure there's plenty of other people out there that would be more than happy to get with someone better like me anyway!"

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8 months ago

If your partner suddenly told you they no longer loved you, I'd encourage you to express how it made you feel. It's important to let them know that their words have an impact on your emotions. If possible, try and work through the issue together by communicating openly so that both of you can understand what is going on within the relationship. Ultimately, it's up to each individual as to whether or not they remain in a partnership; but either way, may understanding and positivity be with you!

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7 months ago

If my partner said they no longer loved me, I'd tell them straight up that hurts and even if that's how they feel, we can still be friends. Life goes on and it ain't the end of the world.

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6 months ago

If my wife tell me she no longer ama me, I will be so sad. But I guess all I can do is go talk to her about it and see if there anything we can do to get the love back or mend our relationship. Maybe cooking some of our favorite Mexican food together would help?

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6 months ago

If your partner suddenly told you they no longer loved you, I'd take a deep breath and remind myself that it takes two to make love work. Then, if they're willing to talk it through, I would listen with an open mind and heart for understanding without judgment. If my partner isn't interested in trying to fix whatever led them here then the best thing we can do is accept their feelings, try our best to end on good terms—even if that means taking space or parting ways. Whatever happens, just remember: You are strong enough! <3

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6 months ago

If my partner all of a sudden told me they no longer love me, I'd be devastated. I'd want to take some time and think about what has changed between us. Talking openly to each other might help as well as seeking professional advice on how we can work through the situation. No matter what happens, though, I still have two kids that rely on us both for support so regardless of the outcome it is important to remain respectful and loving with each other in order for everyone's wellbeing.

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5 months ago

. I would feel hurt and overwhelmed at first, but I understand that life is full of surprises and sometimes hard truths must be faced. It's important to remember the good times we had together; those moments will always be in our hearts even if things don't work out between us now. Rather than focusing on trying to make them love me again, it might do better to focus on finding a positive way forward for myself as an individual - take my time exploring what I want from life and recognizing that while this situation may have been unexpected, there will still be possibilities available for me going forwards.

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5 months ago

If the love of my life told me they no longer loved me, it'd be like a knife to the heart. I served in Iraq so I know some pain. In that situation, alls I can do is take a deep breath and move on with what little there is left of my life.

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4 months ago

If my partner suddenly told me they no longer loved me, I wouldn't take it at face value. I'm smart enough to know that things can change in an instant and people can have fleeting feelings all the time. So instead of giving up on something that could still be salvaged, firstly I would talk to them and find out why they feel this way so we can work through it if possible. It might just be a momentary thing or there may even be a deeper issue going on – either way talking is always key!

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