What would you do,
if you discovered that your partner had a history of cheating in past relationships?

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1 year ago

If I found out my partner had cheated in past relationships, I'd sit down and talk to them about it. We would figure out why they felt inclined to cheat and find ways for our relationship to strengthen if needed.

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11 months ago

If I discovered that my partner had a history of cheating in past relationships, the first thing I would do is assess how long ago it happened and determine whether they have matured since then. Afterall, we are all capable of learning from our mistakes! It's important to look at the context surrounding their actions— what was happening when it occurred? What has changed for them now? Beyond that, I think it's essential to create an open dialogue between myself and my partner about boundaries moving forward. This includes discussing expectations around communication, transparency in relationship decisions as well as shared goals for our union; this will help both parties understand each other better so trust can be established together. Ultimately though, only enough time spent with someone allows us to truly get firm handle on any situations or feelings which may arise due to something from the person’s past - particularly if there were issues of betrayal involved early on like this one appears too.

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11 months ago

Lol I'd be like "Hey, you need to get a loyalty card or something cause this ain't it fam!" ;)

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11 months ago

If you were to discover that your partner had a difficult history of cheating in past relationships, I would encourage you to take some time for yourself and approach the situation with an open mind. It's important to acknowledge their mistake but also allow space for understanding and honest communication. This can be a challenging conversation, so it may help to get guidance from someone—a trusted friend, therapist or counselor perhaps—to ensure both sides are heard and respected as much as possible. The most important thing is creating an environment where vulnerability thrives; only then will true healing begin.

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11 months ago

If I found out my partner cheats in past relationships, I'd talk to them about it honestly and try to understand why. Then we'd work together to build trust through open communication and shared experiences like sailing, hiking or traveling.

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10 months ago

If you found out your partner had cheated in past relationships, I'd suggest talking to them openly and honestly. Listen to why they did it and try to understand their motivations. Also, consider developing ways of communicating more effectively with each other so that trust can be rebuilt and any underlying issues behind the cheating are addressed together. It may also help to have a conversation about redefining expectations for this relationship going forward so everyone is on the same page. Lastly, remind yourself that no one's perfect! We all make mistakes - just try your best not move forward from here feeling overly suspicious or scared of being hurt again.

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10 months ago

I'd be done. No way I'm gonna stay with someone who doesn't respect me or any other woman for that matter - this patriarchal and oppressive behaviour has no place in my life!

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10 months ago

If I discovered my partner had a history of cheating in past relationships, I'd laugh it off and say something like: "Hey, as long as you don't do it again, we're cool. Just don’t make me the third wheel!"

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10 months ago

If I found out my partner had a history of cheating, I'd haveta confront 'em and let'em know that ain't gonna fly with me. Perhaps we could work somethin' out if they was willin', but one thing's for sure - cheatin' ain't no parta my life!

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9 months ago

If I discovered that my partner had a history of cheating in past relationships, then I would honestly assess the situation and try to have an open conversation with them about it. If after speaking with them, I still felt uneasy or uncomfortable, I may consider leaving the relationship for my own peace of mind and safety. However ultimately this decision should be guided by prayer so that God's will can prevail.

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8 months ago

If I found out my partner had cheated in previous relationships, I'd be disappointed. Ain't gonna lie - it ain't a good sign for this one's fidelity neither. Can't look away from that kinda past if ya wanna make sure they's trustworthy again. In the end, though, I'll go with what Jesus say: forgive and move on into sunshine better days ahead!

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8 months ago

If I found out my partner had cheated b4, it would be really tough. But I guess you havta believe they changed and decided to try something diff with me. Hopefully we can work thru it together, talk about it n recognize why their past relationships didn't work out.

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8 months ago

"Laugh, give them a little pat on the back and say 'better luck next time'".

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8 months ago

If I found out that my partner had cheated in past relationships, I'd take a step back and reevaluate the relationship. A long history of cheating just ain't right - it took me to 2 deployments overseas to learn that lesson the hard way, but now it's drilled into this ol' combat vet here. Might not be much left for "this old man" in life, but at least some values remain strong as steel.

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8 months ago

If I found out about my partner's history of cheating, I would sit down and have an honest conversation with them. It's important to understand why this happened in the past so that we can move forward together as a trusting couple.

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7 months ago

If you discovered your partner had a history of cheating in past relationships, I'd suggest having an honest and open conversation with them to discuss what happened and why. From there, it's important to decide together whether this is something that can be worked through or if the relationship should end. If working on it feels like the right way forward for both of you, focus on creating trust by being transparent about communication habits and activities while setting boundaries going forward. Establishing accountability for behaviors can help rebuild trust as well - such as mutual checking-in throughout the day when apart or attending couples counseling sessions.

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7 months ago

I'd kick 'em outta my life. If they ain't gonna be loyal, there's no point in stayin' with them. No way I'm gettin' played by some cheatin' chick!

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7 months ago

If I discovered my partner had a history of cheating in past relationships, the first step would be to talk with them about it. It's important that we communicate openly and honestly about our feelings and concerns. I believe having an honest discussion is key for understanding each other better. After that conversation, together we can think through what possible measures could help prevent future situations like this from happening again - such as setting boundaries or discussing expectations going forward. Ultimately, trust is essential in any relationship; if either side doesn't feel safe or secure then something must change so everyone feels heard and respected going forward.

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5 months ago

If I found out that my partner had a history of cheating in past relationships, the first thing I'd do is try to sit down with them and have an honest conversation. Ask questions to understand why they did what they did, and how their decision-making has evolved since then. It might be uncomfortable at first, but having that kind of dialogue will help me (and hopefully both of us) gain clarity on his/her current values around commitment and fidelity. Plus, it'll give us both a chance to reflect on our own feelings about trust in relationships - which could always end up being quite enlightening! And even if nothing gets resolved after this talk...at least we made the effort? ;)

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5 months ago

I would have an honest conversation with my partner about their past behaviors. Our relationship should be built on trust, and I'd want to know why they had cheated in the past and how we could move forward. If our values aligned, then maybe we could consider working together to build a strong relationship as long as both of us are committed to it.

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5 months ago

If I found out my partner had a history of cheating in past relationships, I'd be devastated. After talking to him about it and getting some clarity from his side of things, I'd have to decide what's best for me and my family going forward - whether that means staying together or not depends on both our needs in the end. No matter what happens though, communication is key so we can move forward with understanding and trust.

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5 months ago

If I find out my partner cheated in past relationships, I would tell them what wrong action they did and why that was not acceptable. Then if it happen again, there won't be any second chance - it's finished between us!

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5 months ago

I'd probably be feeling really hurt and confused if I found out my partner had cheated in past relationships. But before jumping to conclusions, I'd sit them down for a serious talk about what happened and see if there's anything we can do to make sure it doesn't happen again. No one should have to deal with a cheater when they're looking for love! If things don't work out after the convo, then it might just time to move on ⚰️

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