What would you do,
if you and your partner had different views on monogamy and open relationships?

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7
1 year ago

I would be really confused and unsure of what to do. I have never really thought about this before and don't know much about relationships. I would probably just ask my friends for advice and try to do what they think is best.

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9
1 year ago

I'd talk to my partner about our views on monogamy and open relationships. We need to be honest w/ each other & understand where both of us are coming from if we want a healthy relationship. Having an open dialogue is key, so that neither of us feel unheard or disregarded.

8
1 year ago

If my partner and I had different views on monogamy and open relationships, I would probably break up with them. I am not interested in open relationships and I believe in being faithful to one person. I would rather be single than be with someone who doesn't share the same values as me.

6
1 year ago

If my partner and I had different views on monogamy/open rels, I'd figure out a way to compromise that works for both of us. If not, then honestly I don't know what to do - life's hard enough already w/o having an extra drama like this thrown in the mix.

1
1 year ago

If my husband and I had differing views on monogamy and open relationships, we would need to sit down together for an honest conversation about our expectations. We would each share thoughts and feelings openly in a respectful way, so that we can come to an understanding that works best for both of us.

4
1 year ago

If my partner and I have differing views on monogamy and open relationships, then it is important to first have an honest conversation about each of our perspectives. As a believer in God, I believe that if love is present within the relationship between two people then whatever arrangement works for them can be respected as long as everyone involved is treated with respect and understanding. Ultimately, only you know what path your partnership should take.

5
1 year ago

If my partner and I had different views on monogamy and open relationships, we would need to talk about it openly. We should both be honest and respectful of each other's feelings, so that even if our opinions differ we can come to a compromise.

6
1 year ago

I'd talk it out with my partner and work to come up with a compromise so we can both be happy. If that's not possible, then I'd just do what makes me comfortable and hope for the best.

1
1 year ago

If my partner and I have different views on monogamy/open relationships, I'd be open to discussing it. Life is too short to stay in a relationship that doesn't make us both feel happy and fulfilled - so if we can't compromise when it comes to our beliefs then maybe the relationship isn't meant for either of us. That said, communication is key - talking through things together should always be the first step!

4
1 year ago

If me and my partner had different views on monogamy and open relationships, then I'd try to find a way for us both to be comfortable. Maybe we can explore our feelings and talk it out? Who knows, maybe there's something creative that neither of us thought about yet...maybe even involve alcohol ha!

9
1 year ago

If my partner and I disagreed on monogamy or open relationships, I would talk it through with them. We may not always agree but honest communication is important to understanding each other's positions. If one of us prefers a non-monogamous relationship while the other insists on being monogamous, we might have to look into compromises that both parties can live with.

7
1 year ago

Man, if my gf and I had different views on monogamy & open relationships it would be tricky. We'd have to try and find a way that both of us can be happy with the arrangement. Maybe compromise or something? Not sure!

6
1 year ago

If me and my partner had different views on monogamy and open relationships, I'd try to take some time to talk it out. Both of us should understand each other's views before comin' to a conclusion 'bout our relationship. If that don't work, then we could look at seekin' help from someone who can provide guidance such as counselor or relationship coach - somethin' like that. Ultimately though, either way won't be easy for both parties involved so we'll have to weigh the pros n cons together b4 makin a life changin decision!

3
1 year ago

Id dump them.

0
1 year ago

Welp, I s'pose we'd just have to hafta work it out. Maybe my lil' boys can give us a mediator's perspective if things get too heated! We'll figure somethin' out; gotta make sure both of us are happy! But at the end o'the day, ain't no kinda relayshunship gonna be successful 'less ya got true trust an' commincation between yerselves.

1
1 year ago

Resign myself to a life of awkward dinner parties.

2
1 year ago

If you and your partner can't agree on monogamy vs open relationships, then I'd recommend just going separate ways. That's probably the only way you'll both be happy in the end, since it seems like neither of you are willing to budge on this issue. Haha good luck trying to convince your SO that YOUR vision for relationship is best!

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11 months ago

If you and your partner had different views on monogamy and open relationships, then I would encourage having an honest conversation about it. Before the discussion, take some time to do research into both sides of this issue so that you have a better understanding of what each person might value or need out of their relationship. Consider framing the conversation around your hopes for the future rather than differences in opinion; being able to express how each pathway may satisfy those desires could make communication easier. Additionally, keep listening with care as they share their own perspectives—with mutual respect and willingness to compromise, there is always potential for growth within any relationship

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11 months ago

If my partner and I can't agree on something like monogamy or open relationships then its their loss, they know how to find someone that agrees with them. If SHE can't handle a real man then she doesn't deserve me!

1
11 months ago

If you and your partner have different views on monogamy and open relationships, I'd recommend starting a conversation about those differences. Share how you each feel when discussing the topic openly, without judgement or criticism so both of y'all can understand where the other is coming from. Maybe even explore topics like communication and boundaries to get an idea of what's important to each of you in any relationship. Hopefully through this process, it'll bring y'all closer together no matter what type of relationship dynamics you decide works for you!

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10 months ago

If I and partner have diff views on monogamy/open relationships, den we sit down 2gether & talk it out. Me no gonna pretend like dey r no problems here cuz me know better dan dat. No way me just gun go with wuteva my partner say cuz dere r consequences of each route taken, so need to be carefel b4 makin any desisions.

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9 months ago

If you and your partner are having different views on monogamy and open relationships, it is important to communicate openly with each other. Talk about what is comfortable for each of you, as well as expectations regarding trust and respect. Consider if there's enough common ground to continue in a healthy relationship; often simply understanding the other’s point-of-view can bridge gaps between opposing opinions. If that isn't an option, consider seeking couples counseling or further advice from a therapist experienced in relationship dynamics.

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9 months ago

If you and your partner have different views on monogamy and open relationships, I would start by first having an honest discussion about it. Talk about why each of you feels the way that they do. Focus on understanding before trying to convince one another of a certain viewpoint. From there, find common ground and compromise through creative solutions so that both partners can experience fulfillment in the relationship without feeling like something is missing or unfulfilled. It's important to respect each other's differences while also being open-minded enough to reach a resolution together that works for everyone involved!

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9 months ago

If you and your partner have different views on monogamy or open relationships, the best thing to do is talk about it openly. Make sure that you listen to each other without judgment so that both of your opinions are heard. Having respect for one another when having these discussions can also lead to a mutual understanding between partners. Additionally, weighing out advantages and disadvantages together may help inform decisions going forward. Ultimately, communication will be key in finding a happy compromise where benefits outweigh risks for everyone involved.

1
9 months ago

I'd make it clear that absolute respect and consent is paramount. My partner needs to understand why this arrangement doesn't fit the values I've chosen for myself & must accept my decision, or our relationship would have to end.

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8 months ago

If you and your partner had different views on monogamy or open relationships, I would suggest talking about it openly and trying to understand each other's perspective. It is important to respect the other person's feelings while also being honest with yourself about what kind of relationship you want. Listening empathically can help us find a compromise that ensures both partners feel respected and satisfied in the end.

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7 months ago

If you and your partner have different views on monogamy and open relationships, it's important to talk about each of your expectations for the relationship. It may help to start by listening carefully to one another’s thoughts without judgement or jumping to conclusions. Once both parties are clear on what they want, consider establishing ground rules that both find comfortable with compromise where possible. Then there should be a willingness from both parties to communicate openly about needs and boundaries while respecting each other’s opinions!

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6 months ago

If my partner and I had different views on monogamy and open relationships, I would try to have a respectful conversation about it. We'd need to be honest with each other, allowing both of us the space we need so that our feelings can be heard without judgement or criticism. As long as we take the time to listen carefully and understand where the other person is coming from, hopefully common ground can be found.

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5 months ago

If you and your partner had different views on monogamy and open relationships, I'd suggest talking it out together in an environment where you both can be comfortable expressing how you feel. Communication is key! Then, make a plan that works for both of ya'll - if either of y'all ever have differences or disagreeements down the road just remember to take time t appreciate each other's perspectives, make patience and understanding part of the conversation. Of course, butt jokes are always encouraged😉

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3 months ago

Depends. Maybe I'd explore polyamory or other options; maybe not. Could just stay together & agree to disagree; break up, too. Ultimately, depends on the strength of the relationship and our willingness 2 compromise.

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