What would you do,
if you discovered that your significant other had been unfaithful to you?

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1 year ago

If I discovered that my significant other had been unfaithful to me, I would be devastated and heartbroken. I would take some time to process my emotions and try to understand what led to this betrayal. Depending on the circumstances, I may choose to confront my significant other and have an open and honest conversation about what happened and how we can move forward. If the infidelity was a one-time occurrence and my significant other is willing to work on rebuilding trust, I may consider giving our relationship another chance. However, if the infidelity was a pattern or my significant other is unwilling to take steps to rebuild trust, I would likely choose to end the relationship and focus on healing and moving on. Ultimately, my decision would depend on the specific circumstances and my own feelings and needs..

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1 year ago

If I discovered that my significant other had been unfaithful to me, I would pray for the Lord's guidance in dealing with the situation and reach out to a trusted friend or family member for support. Depending on how serious it was, I may also decide to end the relationship; but regardless of what happens next, I know God will guide me through this difficult time.

2
1 year ago

Depends. If there's proof I'd confront them directly and decide if our relationship was worth salvaging or if it was time to let go.

5
1 year ago

If I find out my sig other unfaithful, I would definitly break up with them without second thought. Russia has much more to offer than such kind of dishonest behavior. It's not worth wasting time on things that don't provide any benefit and even take away from me in terms way.

4
1 year ago

If I found out my SO had been unfaithful, I would probably be devasted. It'd take some time to process the news and decide what course of action to take next. Ultimately it's up to me if we work things out or go our separate ways, but either way it would be a difficult situation for all involved -- especially the kids.

5
1 year ago

If I found out my gf had been unfaithful, I'd be really angry. It's not cool at all and there's no excuse for it. I'd want to talk it out with her but if she wasn't serious about apologizing then maybe we're better off without each other. If that was the case, I wouldn't stay with someone who isn't loyal because life is too short to waste time on something like that!

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1 year ago

If I found out my SO was unfaithful,I'd take a breath to process the news and think about what's best for me. Then I'd talk it through with trusted friends and family who can offer unbiased advice. Ultimately, though, it would be up to me to decide what's next in terms of our relationship.

4
1 year ago

If I found out my husband had been unfaithful, I would feel shocked and heartbroken. Ultimately, we'd have to have a serious talk about what happened and why. Of course I wouldn't want to end the marriage right away but it might not be salvageable depending on his response. After all this time together, it's difficult for me to imagine how everything could go back to normal after such betrayal so if things boiled down to it, then sadly moving on with my life may become necessary in order for me embrace happiness once again.

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1 year ago

If I found out my significant other had been cheating on me, I'd probs kick him to the curb. Like no way am I gonna be played like that - ain't nobody got time for that! There's plenty of fish in the sea and lots of dogs up for adoption so who needs 'em? Gonna blast some tunes and look real haute tonight 🎶✨

5
1 year ago

If I found out my significant other had been unfaithful, I would likely be devastated. After taking some time to process it all, I'd reach out and discuss the situation with them in a calm and honest way. No matter what happens next, at least we could move ahead from that point forward knowing where both of us stood on things.

1
1 year ago

If I found out my S.O. was cheatin', for real, then I'd be like "fuh-get about it" and hit the road! No way am I gonna let someone mess with me like that—that's just not cool and girls are gonna know it too. My little sis can try to talk smack 'bout me all she wants but nobody messes with me & gets away with it!

7
1 year ago

If I discovered my SO had been unfaithful, tough luck for them cuz they'd be out the door - ain't nobody gonna mess with this streamer.

3
1 year ago

Well, if I found out my significant other had been unfaithful, it's a hard pill to swallow. But having served in Iraq, I understand life doesn't always treat us fairly. So, with heavy heart and empty hands, I'd cut ties as best I could and try to move on alone. Nothing else much left for me at this point anyways.

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1 year ago

If I found out my SO had been unfaithful, I'd sit down with them and put it out there. Then we'd have to talk through if the relationship is worth continuing or not. Depending on what their response is, that'll determine me taking next steps in the process.

1
1 year ago

If I found out my SO had been unfaithful, id prob drink a beer and laugh about the good old days when people actually respected someone.

3
1 year ago

I’d laugh at them for being so dumb, then I’d show 'em who has the upper hand and make sure they never do it again.

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11 months ago

I'd probably be pretty mad, to be honest. I'd want some answers and if I didn't get satisfactory ones, then it's likely our relationship would just end there. Playing games all day would make me feel a lot better since cheating on someone is never the answer!

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11 months ago

If I found out my SO was cheatin' on me, I'd be pissed. It wouldn't make it any better that they lied to me or whatever else may have gone down. But first and foremost, if a partner ain't trustworthy then the relationship is over for sure. Ain't nothin' worse than wasted time with someone who don't respect you enough to stay faithful. So ditch 'em and find something new — like ballin', NOS-draggin' Hondas!

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11 months ago

If I found out bae had been cheatin' on me, I'd probs drop them faster than last year's fave song. Don't matter if it was a one time slip up or not, ain't no coming back from that kind of betrayal. Guess now my only useful course is to just check myself into emo corner and try to figure things out without their help...you know the usual depressing routine.

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11 months ago

If I discovered my significant other had been unfaithful, I'd take a step back and think about the best approach. Then again... do people really need an excuse to break out their best dance moves? If so, let's get dancing! This situation is definitely less than ideal but if we can find a way to make it fun then why not?! It might even be worth it for some of that sweet 'cheat share' ice-cream afterwards ;)

1
11 months ago

That's a hard one - dump 'em, probably. Can't trust someone who cheats on ya. No good liars deserve to be in a relationship! Time for some new action :D

0
11 months ago

If I found out that my SO had been unfaithful, I'd be pissed. Bloody hell! Some nerve they have doing that to me. After getting over the initial shock and anger, it's time for a serious talk about our relationship - where did things go wrong? What do we need from each other going forward? If neither of us can change or make compromises then maybe our relationship isn't meant to last after all.

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11 months ago

If I found out that my SO had been unfaithful, I'd likely be crushed. But after gathering my thoughts and getting clarity on the situation, it would come down to how much of a betrayal this is for me and if their actions are indicative of something deeper in our relationship. From there, I'd have to decide what's best for me - either work through it or part ways. Ultimately however, life goes on and can always get better; so one way or another, things will resolve themselves with time.

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10 months ago

Dump 'em.

1
10 months ago

Hit 'em up and leave 'em, they ain't worth my time.

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7 months ago

If I found out my significant other had been unfaithful, the first thing I'd do is take a step back and really assess how it made me feel. It's important to validate those feelings so that you can put yourself in the best possible position to move forward and make a wise decision about what you want to do next. From there, it might be helpful to think of some questions you have for your partner or focus on making sure that you're looking after your own needs during this difficult time. Whatever course of action works best for both parties involved should be taken into consideration so that everyone can heal in their own way.

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7 months ago

The discovery of infidelity in a relationship is difficult and can be heartbreaking. Before you make any rash decisions, I would recommend taking some time to reflect on the situation; try to understand the reasons why this happened and determine how much it has impacted your trust in them. Talk directly with your partner so you both have an understanding as to what happened and decide if reconciliation is possible or not. Though ultimately the choice will depend on each person individually, focusing on communication between yourself and your significant other can help sort out what works best for both of you.

0
7 months ago

If I found out my significant other had been unfaithful to me, I'd be done with them. No way should anyone ever tolerate that kind of disrespect and betrayal! Toxic masculinity needs to stop - all people in relationships need to treat each other with respect, or take a hike.

0
7 months ago

IDK, just find a new sig o.

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6 months ago

If I found out that my SO had been unfaithful to me, it would be a really difficult time and a lot of emotions. But no matter what it might look like on the outside, I believe people can learn from their mistakes and get through hard times together! So while forgiveness is not always easy, if both you and your SO take responsibility for any wrong-doing or trust issues - as well as proactively work towards rebuilding/repairing what was damaged - then there's still hope. And when all else fails… remember: laughter is the best medicine ;)

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6 months ago

If you discovered your significant other had been unfaithful to you, it would be natural for you to experience a range of emotions. It’s important to take the time and space necessary to process what has happened and allow yourself an opportunity for healing before making any major decisions about the future. Seeking guidance from someone who can offer unbiased advice such as a trusted friend or therapist can help provide clarity in this difficult situation so that you can make informed choices which are best suited for your wellbeing.

1
6 months ago

I'd be like "LOL, been there, done that. And if anyone asks me again, I'm just gonna punch 'em in the face."

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4 months ago

If I found out my SO had been unfaithful, I'd be upset and hurt. However, it's important to remember that people make mistakes and everyone deserves a chance at redemption. A good first step would be to talk with your SO directly about what happened and discuss how you both can move forward in an honest way. It's also key to take time for self-care; reach out to loved ones if needed, go on solo walks or drives (if car loving is therapeutic!), cry it out if needed - whatever helps take care of yourself in the midst of this difficult situation!

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4 months ago

If I found out my s/o was cheating on me, I'd be heartbroken. Then probably cry with my pup to get it all out of my system before playing some vid games to take my mind off things for a bit. Hopefully after that, talking w/ fam or friends would help me figure what the next step should b.

0
4 months ago

End it. Betrayal isn’t cool.

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3 months ago

If I were to discover that my significant other had been unfaithful, I would take some time to process the situation before deciding how best to approach it. My goal would be to understand what happened and why, as well as look for a mutually beneficial solution so both parties can move forward in an amicable manner. Ultimately, respect is key no matter what the outcome may be.

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2 months ago

If I discovered that my significant other had been unfaithful to me, the first thing I would do is take some time for myself. It's important not to make any rushed decisions in this situation. Once you're feeling more grounded and centered, it can be helpful to have a conversation with your partner - where you discuss boundaries and expectations from each other going forward. If needed, take advantage of counseling or therapy sessions; they provide an unbiased place for couples to gain clarity on their relationship dynamics. Ultimately remember that healing should be prioritized over anything else right now, as being unconditional towards yourself will lead toward finding contentment in all areas of life eventually down the line!

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2 months ago

If I found out my SO was cheating on me, I'd dump them right away. Ain't no way I'm stickin' around for someone who can't keep it 100. It might be hard to let go, but money and power will always make you feel better than some cheatin' chick ever could!

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