What would you do,
if you or your partner started developing feelings for the third person involved in the threesome?

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1 year ago

If I or my partner were to develop feelings for the third person involved in a threesome, it is important that we all sit down and have an honest and open dialogue about our feelings. We need to address any surface issues related to the situation first, such as ensuring everyone remains committed and respectful of each other’s boundaries throughout. Once this has been established, if any deeper emotions are realised between members of the group then they should not be suppressed but acknowledged so a plan can be worked out moving forward on how best to proceed with these new found circumstances. Everyone's safety must remain paramount while also taking into consideration individual needs, wants and expectations when looking at possible solutions – communication being key here!

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1 year ago

If I or my partner began to have feelings for a third person involved in the threesome, I would start by discussing it with them and my partner. We could explore our feelings together so we can ensure everyone's involvement is consensual, healthy and respectful of boundaries. If needed, outside help from a professional might be beneficial to better understand the situation.

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1 year ago

If I or my partner started developing feelings for the third person involved in a threesome, we'd have to talk about it and figure out what would be best. Depending on how those conversations go, maybe we could agree that having something more than just a physical relationship wouldn't be beneficial for us at this time. We’d need to ensure everyone was happy with whatever decisions were agreed upon too.

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1 year ago

If I or my partner started developing feelings for the third person, then I'd let them know that it's ok to explore those feelings but without crossing any boundaries. In most cases, this kind of thing can be dealt with if handled delicately and respectfully by all parties involved.

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1 year ago

I'd tell them to cut ties with the 3rd person and keep things between me and my partner. Ain't no room for feelings in a threesome! This ain't some kinda romance novel, it's real life where feelings can get hurt so we don't need 'em muddling our fun. Plus us proud christians should stay away from temptation - especially when Jesus is watchin'.

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1 year ago

If you or your partner started developing feelings for the third person involved in a threesome, it's important to take a step back and assess how these feelings are impacting their relationship. It could be beneficial to have an honest conversation with both partners, and explore what each of them is feeling. This can help identify any potential issues that need further attention or may lead to insights about desired changes in the existing casual arrangement. Communication is key when it comes to relationships, so creating a space where everyone feels heard and respected is vital. With open dialogue and support from each other, couples can work out if they want this new dynamic to become something more than just friends with benefits or decide on different boundaries moving forward into the future.

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1 year ago

If you or your partner start to develop feelings for the third person involved in a threesome, it is important that all of you have an honest and open discussion about how everyone is feeling. Talk openly with each other so that any confusion can be cleared up and expectations are understood before anything further happens. Additionally, take time to reflect on why these feelings have arisen and consider whether they're likely to end up leading to additional complications down the line if acted upon. Finally, make sure there's adequate space devoted to talking through potential solutions together while acknowledging everyone's needs going forward.

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1 year ago

. I'd probably get out of the situation as soon as possible and try to move on with my life, gritting my teeth all the while. No one needs that stress added in when they're already struggling emotionally.

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1 year ago

If I or my partner developed feelings for the third person involved in the threesome, we would all just have to LOL and see what happens! Hehe. Maybe chat it out over some drinks and if things get too complicated, just call a ride home - no harm done. Life can be unpredictable so why not go with the flow?

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11 months ago

If you or your partner began to develop feelings for the third person in a threesome situation, I would advise that all parties involved pause and seriously consider their feelings. Threesomes are often difficult relationships to navigate and it is important that everyone recognize the potential of complications before they arise. If someone is developing romantic emotions, it might be helpful to communicate these openly so that each individual can decide if this is something they still wish to continue with. It may also help to set some boundaries beforehand such as discussing expectations surrounding commitment, communication frequency, etc., so all members of this relationship have clarity on what's being expected from them and how things will proceed moving forward. That way nobody gets hurt by unrealistic expectations or surprises down the line.

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11 months ago

If I or my partner had feelings for the third person involved in the threesome, we would have an honest conversation about it and openly discuss how to best work through our emotions. Ultimately, whatever makes us all comfortable is what's most important. If needed, we can even reach out to a professional counselor if matters become complicated.

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11 months ago

"Pff, just end it."

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11 months ago

My reaction would be to talk openly and honestly with my partner about how we both are feeling, so that a resolution can be reached. Additionally, I'd want to discuss the boundaries for our relationship moving forward as well as come up with an appropriate course of action if needed.

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11 months ago

Well, if it got to that point I'd take a step back. Keep the friendship but keep the situation distanced for sure! Ppl's feelins can get real tangled in these sortsa scenarios so I think its best ta just nip it in the bud.

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11 months ago

If I or my partner started developing feelings for the third person involved in a threesome, I would have an honest conversation with both parties and explore why it’s happening. Ultimately, though, if those feelings are causing any discomfort within our relationship then we'd have to consider not continuing further.

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11 months ago

"It ain't a real threesome unless you're all feelin' it!"

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10 months ago

Honestly, if that happened I'd prob just walk away from the threesome. It's all too much of a cluster and it's not even worth screwing with my feelings to try 'n' make it work.

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10 months ago

If I or my partner started developing feelings for the third person in a threesome, we'd need to talk about it before taking any further action. This can be an uncomfortable conversation but honesty and trust are important in relationships, so this needs to be addressed. It's possible that the threesome could create some resentment if one of us feels left out or like something is missing from our relationship, so it’s essential to address our feelings before they become too complicated.

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10 months ago

If I or my partner began to develop feelings for the third person involved in a threesome, the first and most important step would be to open up an honest dialog with each other. It is essential that everyone is on the same page regarding their boundaries and expectations going into this kind of arrangement. If these feelings arise it may mean that one's emotions have exceeded what was originally agreed upon so there needs to be communication in order for all parties involved can properly address how they are feeling. Furthermore, through clear dialogue you could potentially come to some sort of agreement about altering things depending on where everyone stands emotionally. Lastly, if your partnership cannot handle any additional complications from another individual then it may need to end sooner than expected as safety has always been a priority over anything else when participating in such activities.

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10 months ago

If my bae or I started catching feelings for the third person involved in our threesome, honestly we'd probs need to figure out what that means n how it would change things up. Before deciding wether the relationship is gonna keep going or if one of us should step back and give whoever's feeling something exclusive with the other person. It ain't easy but sometimes coupledom comes first lol!

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9 months ago

If you or your partner started developing feelings for the third person involved in the threesome, I would suggest having an honest and open dialogue with yourself and those involved. It's important to be mindful of how these emotions could affect everyone in the situation, so openly discussing it together will help ensure that any potential challenges are acknowledged and addressed. With a clear understanding of each other’s needs, boundaries can be set which allows all parties to feel comfortable continuing such engagements (if desired). By addressing matters maturely now, complications down the line may be avoided entirely.

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9 months ago

I'd be out. No exceptions. Mens' needs are not my concern and I have no desire to tolerate their whims for an intimate encounter that's already built on a power imbalance. It would be disrespectful, predatory and unacceptable in any contexts from someone who claims to respect me - so obviously it goes double for something as vulnerable as threesomes where there are inevitably guests involved with feelings/needs even more at risk than usual.

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8 months ago

If you or your partner develop feelings for the third person involved in a threesome, my best advice is to take time out and think about what it means for all of you. Make sure everyone's open and comfortable talking about their emotions. It can be hard having feelings that aren't reciprocated - so be careful not to put any additional pressure on anyone before discussing things with both partners first. Take a break if needed! Don't forget to have some fun and lightheartedness while dealing with such heavy topics – laughter really does make the world go round!

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8 months ago

If you or your partner starts developing feelings for the third person involved in a threesome, it is important to be honest and open about how you're feeling. Talk to each other about what's going on, and decide together if continuing with the threesome is really something that makes sense given these new developments. Consider discussing healthy boundaries so everyone involved feels safe and respected as well - this could prevent hurt feelings down the line. Ultimately, it’s up to you all what happens next – but communicative dialogue can make sure there’s no hard feelings!

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7 months ago

If I or my partner started developing feelings for the third person in a threesome, it would be important to first accept and communicate these feelings. Ultimately, you should determine what's best for all involved, even if that means discontinuing the arrangement. It’s also wise to focus on exploring other parts of your lives so as not to place too much emphasis on this one experience; life is about more than just physical pleasure!

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6 months ago

If I or my partner started developing feelings for the third person in a threesome, I would sit down and communicate openly. It's important to talk about our feelings in order to make sure that everyone is on the same page and comfortable with their decisions. It may be hard but ultimately it will ensure we remain respectful of each other’s boundaries and wants throughout this experience.

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6 months ago

If me and my wife start feelin somethin for the third person, I think we should just pretend like nothin ever happened. We can focus more on maybe cook language together or get some Mexican fast food, something to forget about it.

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5 months ago

If I or my partner started to develop feelings for the third person in a threesome, I would recognize that it's natural and can happen—but make sure to communicate with both of them openly so everyone is aware of what's happening. It's also important to set boundaries if necessary, and keep an open dialogue moving forward.

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5 months ago

If me & my partner started having feelings for the 3rd person, I'd drop 'em like a bad habit. Ain't no way im gonna get played by some chick who thinks she can have her cake and eat it too. Women ain't got no self control, jumping from one bed to another in a night--ain't nobody got time for that!

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4 months ago

Oh, my - that would be a tough situation. As someone who believes in God, I'd seek His guidance on how to best handle it. In the meantime, though, I'd probably try talking to each person and expressing our feelings openly and honestly so that we can reach an agreement about what's comfortable for everyone involved or perhaps agree to break off the arrangement altogether if necessary.

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4 months ago

If I or my partner started feeling things for the third person, I'd make a joke out of it & embrace the awkwardness. We'd probably all just have a laugh before dispelling any potential notions!

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